4. WHOLENESS

WHOLENESS
The great psychologist Carl Jung said that our deepest desire is for "wholeness." I take that to mean reaching our potential as humans, becoming the type of persons we’re capable of being. Until we satisfy this desire, we’ll always feel emptiness at the very core of our existence. The only way we can fill it is with integrity. It’s what makes u complete.

5. MENTAL AND PHYSICAL HEALTH

MENTAL AND PHYSICAL HEALTH
If dishonesty is at the root of many of our psychological problems, then honesty is a source of mental health. If dishonesty attacks our nervous systems, then honesty must strengthen them. When we’re honest, we free ourselves from guilt, worry and other forms of inner turmoil. We begin to enjoy feelings of self-respect and confidence.There’s a feeling of assurance that comes from DOING THE RIGHT THINGS, from living as complete human beings. Simply put, we feel better when we’re honest.

6. BEING AUTHENTIC

BEING AUTHENTIC
"This above all, to thine own self be true,And it must follow, as the night the day,Thou canst not then be false to any man."(Shakespeare)
If Shakespeare hadn’t chosen writing as a profession, he probably would have become one of history’s greatest psychologist/philosophers. It was his keen insight into human behavior that made his writing so powerful. In the famous verse above he’s simply telling us to be authentic, to be real persons instead of the fake ones we’re so often tempted to be. HONESTY IS A CHOICE. When we make that choice, not in a particular set of circumstances, but as a way of life, we begin to understand what it means to be an authentic person. We become what we were meant to be. Something happens inside of us, but we can’t explain it to anyone else. We just feel something unbelievably good, and we begin to respect ourselves more than ever before. That’s what it means to be true to ourselves. And because it feels so good to be authentic, it necessarily follows that we’ll be true to others.

AWARENESS! A Key Factor In Helping Others To Recognize For Themselves Their Own Value

Since it is my intention to help others first and foremost, I am always on the hunt for new subject matter with the type of content I feel is self-empowering in one fashion or another. Much of the time however, I also reference back to what I know has served in my own quest for a higher spiritual connection to the world around me given me a stronger foundation to create a more harmonious balance for my family. Time and Time again much of the wisdom that I have come to count on is from my enlightened perspective about continual outcome of our lives and what I have discovered through my pursuit has taught me how to bring more blessings and gratitude into my life. I find favor with the idea that each and every one of us is responsible and accountable for the truths that come to express themselves in our lives. Whether we cause a certain set of events to manifest their existence into our lives or if we out right force them to happen by our own actions.

But behind that thin veil of truth I also see years of pain and suffering most often influenced and instilled in us from our childhood or past experiences. I think a negative conduit forms when we meet with these afflictions then hostility, abuse and discord continue to channel through that very same pipeline of polluted events and the energy therein continues to grow. The most frightening truth from the repetition of these unsavory events is that we are not only besieged with foul memories of all the chaos we also inherit the energy that accompanies our sense of having no merit or benefit! All we see in ourselves is that we are not good enough and believe ourselves valueless. Making us feel unfavorable to others empty and fruitless.

How then can one bring abundance and prosperity into there own life without proper influence? How can they manifest anything other than the same kind of adverse and malevolent energy that has plagued them for the whole or the majority of their existence? If one is down trodden and melancholy and as in the discovery of The Law of Attraction will attract, like how then can they undo the beliefs and displaced feelings they have integrated into their thought process from any early age? I believe that it is less relevant who is coming into our lives or what we are engaging our actions in and around as it is to take accountability for our tolerance of such things if certain events or people are not worthy of promoting peace and tranquility in our environment we must work to find a healthier way of conducting ourselves and our behavior so that we can begin to successfully excuse our selves from these negative influences and begin to repel the repetitive patterns we have adopted for ourselves free and clear of their negative influence.

What I mean by that is if we are feeling unworthy or not good enough I do believe that it makes complete sense psychologically that we would become quite capable of attracting certain types of events and circumstances that would produce others who would share those negative conclusions about us as well. However, If we can come to a place of resolve place that allows us to see our own remarkable contributions in this world and what those same attributes have to offer out to us if we begin to disallow our selves to validate the inaccurate conclusions that have been thrust upon our spirits then we can thus begin to attract the kinds of positive situations and personalities we desire that will bring inevitable rewards instead.

I would purpose that if we focus on the good in the world then that very same good will begin to make its presence known to us. There are so many materials available to us today not to mention the experts in the arena of self-help and motivation that we can turn to in order to let go of the current events that are holding us back from finding our reason for being here on this earth at this exact place and time in history. The good news is that there are answers and we can find them if we resolve ourselves to do so. It will take time. It will seem like an up hill battle at times if you intend it you will find what it is that you are seeking! I know you will because I have done this for myself in my own life and now I hope to bring you to a place where you can realize your own ability to create the same profound results for yourself as well! Good luck my prayers and blessings are with you.

Way to Happiness

Happiness is an important part of a success. Happy people are triumphant and contented. More importantly, they are themselves agents of happiness. They spread sunshine wherever they go. So, they can easily form successful relationships with those around them. In short, happiness is a factor that can make all the difference between success and failure.

It is in recognition of the importance of happiness in life that there is now a branch of psychology dedicated to it. If you look back at the history of psychology, you will see that at one time, psychologists were only treating mental illnesses. Then came a phase when they were caught up with what generates negative emotions. However, in the last 5-10 years there is more awareness of what makes people happy. This is due to a burgeoning movement called positive psychology . This science focuses attention on the strengths of people rather than their shortcomings. It studies the secrets that contribute to happiness, instead of distress and pain.

Positive psychologists have discovered that a large percentage of factors contributing to happiness is genetic and accidental. For instance, you have little control over what kind of family you are born into and what your financial circumstances are at the beginning of your life. Even so, every individual has control over 40% of the factors contributing to happiness. These factors include your personal attitude to life, your ability to see the bright side of things and your personal philosophy of life, among other things. If you can control these and align them to the path of happiness, you can easily take giant leaps towards happiness.

Some of the most powerful secrets of happiness are as follows:

Count your blessings: Do you remember the first time you drove a car? Do you remember the excitement and the feeling of pride? Now that you are regularly driving your car, you no longer feel the same happiness. Why? You have stopped counting your blessings! At one time, when the experience was new, you felt humbled by it. You were appreciative. But now that the experience is jaded, you no longer feel the same vibrant happiness. Stop taking your life, relationships, home and facilities for granted. For once, stop and tell yourself, �~Wow! My life is simply great. I have everything I need. I am the happiest person alive!’

Invest time in close relationships: Study after study has found that people in steady relationships live longer, are happier and feel more secure about themselves. Support and nurture close relationships.

Do some charity work: Helping others is important to human nature though most of us would like to think otherwise. When you see people in need and do something to relieve their pain, you will find your heart brimming with happiness.

Choose to be happy: These days, our tolerance level is very low. Even the smallest things irritate and distress us. Change this trend. Choose to be happy. When you feel the irritation mounting, think about the good things in your life.

Smile: This may seem silly but the simple act of lifting the corners of your mouth will put you in a happier frame of mind. You simply cannot smile and be unhappy.

PASSION

Have you ever really looked at the persons you know of who are great leaders? I'm talking about those individuals that have an almost infectious nature which seems to ignite a fire in those around them and pondered the question "How do they do it?" You just can't help but be in "Ah!" of their positive energy! They appear to have an "It" factor that every one picks up on and wishes to emulate. They are almost always in a good and jovial mood and it is quite evident that they have "The Midas Touch!" because nearly all they choose to involve themselves with turns to gold.

Their professional associates have not only a great respect for them, they often appreciate the relationships they share with these "Leaders" in a very genuine and regarding manner. These types of individuals also have a strong and loving bond with their children and spouse. They have a very close-knit circle of friends with whom they share their joy of living on many levels -on a regular basis. From Happiness to Tragedy, they never seem to "Jump Ship" no matter how rough the waters or how turbulent the winds, and they always are there to save the day with a warm word of encouragement or a kind gesture in times of trouble.

Although it could be explained away as "Some people have all the luck!" I believe that there is so much more to it than that. I believe that these types of individuals have a certain kind of integrity about the way they conduct themselves around others that creates a Win-Win situation for all. To elaborate further on this I want to point out the fact that these "Leaders"...

1.) ALWAYS share the glory for a job well done and they give all the credit to the network of people involved in the successful outcome when things are running smoothly... however, these stand-out leaders will solely take on full responsibility -holding only themselves accountable when things go awry, and they meet with failure.

2.) They have a strong sense of "Loyalty" and "Commitment" in all they do.

3.) They have yet a stronger understanding of "Right" and "Wrong".

4.) They will not waiver in their "Perseverance"", nor will they "Conform" to the masses.

5.) "Failure" is not only missing from their vocabulary, It is never even in their mind-set.

6.) Character is their barometer -it guides them in all they do.

7.) They truly stand in line with the very definition of the word "Integrity" -as being the firm adherence to a code or standard of "Values" and this is the only mode in which they operate.

I believe if you not only validate the important characteristics of the principles expressed above, but align your actions and behaviors -as well as your reactions and responses to these ideas you will change everything in your life in the long run, and become a "Leader" yourself! It also becomes possible for you to see that it all must be within us...or all will be without us. Life is not really about "Him","Her","They","Them","We",or "Us" before it is about "Me" and "I". I think that far too many people attempt to "Fill" their lives with Outside Rewards. Those "Rewards" range from the material, to the acquired, all the way to certain persons we become enamored with from the realm of friendship to the intimately romantic. When someone tries to rely on these "Outside" distractions -they often come up short in their sense of contentment and happiness...after all, isn't "Happiness" really an inside job? Isn't it really our own to create -or dispel? To cherish or to dismiss? Isn't that the impression you get from a real leader -that they too have figured this out for themselves? Don't you get the idea that "Leaders" know "How to happily achieve-vs-achieve to be happy!" and that fact also sets these folks out from the rest?

Perhaps the ultimate sign of true leader is his or her "Wisdom". Maybe being in union with the key factors outlined in this article along with really learning how to apply them in every venue of our lives -and by example we can all hold ourselves to a new and clearer way of being and becoming. Maybe, just maybe, the door to leadership is open to all those not only pursuing a greater outcome, but hoping also to never forget the great pleasure of the journey! We can all become the Great Leaders of our own lives while inspiring others to do the same! I for one believe just merely giving credence to the Idea of this has potential for igniting a fire within that can lead us forward in much the same way as true "Leader" would. Now... how's that for a good place to start?